Perfect and Casual

Just wanna tell you guys that I have been spending the rest of my life with watching drama and wishing to exprience that in a real life haha, but look at the drama just making me feel so freaking happy how wonderful is love. Just by looking at the person you love from the far could make you feel happy. So weird how people always said that love is hard. To me, Love is not hard but loving the wrong person is hard. Love is a wonderful things and how happy it is to feel love. I know people would say that I'm in fantasy because that was only in drama. But the truth is, it happen in reality and I know it. And of course the drama would not be fun if there is no argurment in relationship.. and of course all couple has experience a break up.. but break up teach them how to live without the person they love. And that's how they overcome it, times has heal them and change them for who they are.

If the couple really loves each other, of course in each argurment, would be minderstood situation and communication is a key. If you love the person, and don't want to lose them.. then you have to chase them and then explain slowly.. communication is important.. look at their face and eye, then you would know their feeling from that. And that how the argurment turns into loving again. You would know each other character and sincere feeling. That was just what I learn from the drama. 

But most of it, would be happy. By understanding, and communicate with each other. You would be happy. Always thankful and grateful for your partner. Little things could be the happiest moments in their life too. That's why love seems so wonderful. 

In a reality, before you loving someone, love yourself first. Loving yourself could make people love you more. I'm not that really expert in a relationship but I just want to help people who go through pain in love. Just want to tell them that love is a wonderfull things. If you think love is pain, just think that you just don't find yet the right person for you. So don't keep searching for the right one and just loving yourself everyday.

Sometimes we have to pretend that we are happy, so people would never sympathy on us. Let the world know that your doing okay and you would fight everyday to be okay. If your not doing okay, just know that it's okay to not be okay. Because everything takes time to be okay. We cannot make ourselves forget everything because our mind doing really well in remembering all the pain or memories. So don't force yourselves to forget everything but instead, learn somethings in life. It's okay to hate human, and not to trust anyone.. it's okay to do that and it's also okay to cry or sad sometimes. Because afterall we are only human and doing that doesn't mean your weak. That's mean your mature enough to feel the pain and alive. 

Don't blame on yourself too much or blame on love. Just remember that your precious in your own life. It's okay to feel fantasy. So, live your own life. You got this. 

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